It has taken me more than a year to write this…

Maybe once you have an intention everything sets into motion to fulfill it. Last year for sure I wouldn’t have had the depth, wisdom, and experience to write it or feel it as I do today.

One thing is clear. I have never felt I love my family and that they loved me back as much as I do today. I have never felt more grateful for them than I do today.

Why is honoring the roots important?

Firstly, one cannot blossom without strong roots. Our roots are our parents and ancestors.

Secondly, if you get a chance to have a zoom-out view, a higher view, you will understand how much love is between souls, parents, and children. The sooner you can understand this, the sooner you can change your life and enjoy your parents and siblings while you are in this body and on this earth.

Here is a beautiful link to a BQH session where the higher self explains the dynamics between family members and how to heal it through seclusion.

BQH – Healing through seclusion and clarifying life’s purpose

We only live this life once and it is planned perfectly for us.

We live in a time when sooner or later we will go through a healing journey, whether it’s a book, therapy, spiritual healing techniques, or inner child work. And in this phase, we realise or find out how some perceived issues are related to our childhood and parents.

We might get distant, blame, and have resentment towards our parents for different reasons. For being punished, for being yelled at, for being physically abused, for not being allowed to follow your dreams, or even worse… You might look at them as asleep or they might look at you as the black sheep of the family.

However, one of the most important things I learned over the years is that no matter what education you have, what healing journeys you did, what clothes you wear, or what diet you have, at the core you will have the qualities and defects of your parents. You will never be able to be at peace and thriving until you make peace with them, honor and love them.

We are part of an evolution chain where hopefully, we get a chance to evolve a little bit more than our previous generation. We choose the place and family where we are born and our challenges. Depending on our upbringing, we have different love languages. What my mind could not perceive as love in my parent’s mind was perceived as the greatest level of love one can give.

I truly realized in these last weeks that my perception of the past has been limited. I am truly grateful to get to know and understand that what seemed to me as a disharmonious and toxic relationship between my parents was just how two people knew how to love and that they truly loved each other and us in the best way they could.

Life sent me back home where I had the chance to experience a different reality. Extending this to a macro level, I can only be humble and realise how much I do not know about myself and others. Everything is part of a greater plan or universal mind known as GOD.

The only thing we can do is to get to know ourselves better and learn to love more.

Conclusion – Honouring our roots

• Honoring the roots ensures we bear good fruits.
• Honouring the history
  • Doesn’t mean agreeing with the parent’s or ancestor’s beliefs.
  • It’s about acknowledging that I wouldn’t be what I am right now, what I love about me and the world without them. Because of their path, what they are is what created me and made me who I am.
  • It’s not about agreeing with what happened, it’s about accepting that that was the history. The greatest enemies are the greatest masters who show us who we are and by thanking them I transcend that history.
• Honouring the roots gives seed to the future.

Love,

Mage